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Kids head to school on Valentine’s Day truly excited! Usually, they have created a special box to capture valentines from all of their classmates.
When I attended primary school, there was a rule that everyone had to give all of their classmates a valentine to avoid hurt feelings. Yet, one year, I did not get a valentine from somebody in my class and I was devastated. I remember making a big deal out of the situation and I think it even got my classmate in trouble. (OK, I admit I was pretty sensitive!)
To avoid hurt feelings and this classroom quandary, take the following steps:
- Definitely make a valentine box to hold all of those cards. This will be a fun craft project, and the kids will have a central place to capture valentines.
- Ask your classroom teacher for a complete list of students so that you know the names of the kids in the class and can use this as a resource when filling out valentines with your kids at home.
One tip: You don’t necessarily need to address the valentines to particular names. If it is easier, count out enough cards for the number of kids in your child’s class, add one or two more just in case, and have your child sign his or her name on the cards. Your child can then drop them into the boxes without worrying about their classmates’ names. This works especially well with very young kids.
To make your life easy, consider getting the cards early, and online. Amazon
A word of advice: these days, lots of valentines come with a candy favor. Double check with your school district or classroom teacher BEFORE buying treats to make sure they are allowed.
These simple steps should avoid hurt feelings this holiday!
